'Man Vs Woman' or 'Man & Woman'

I just now replied to a blog post where a year long discussion was going on "why conflicts between man & woman " and the recent one by someone claiming that "women are confused as to what they want". I've reproduced my thoughts which I sent to that particular group... Pl. blogpost your opinions too .. Laks

How does this sound to you ?
1. ' Man Vs Woman' 2. 'Man & Woman' . The simplest solution to all you have discussed is here- whether your lead your life as "man vs woman" or "man & woman" . Man vs woman- its always a competition as to who is bigger - in terms of anything - money, love, ego, respect .This is a parasitic life - an unhealthy competition - the root cause of all problems . But Man & Woman always means a peaceful co-existence. Each one trying to lift the other higher in all aspects.. Its a symbiotic relationship. There are three realities here:

1. Both at "man & woman" level of relationship - Life is beautiiful & they live happily ever after
2. One lives M&W and the other M vs W - Go on upto your tolerance levels - If one is unable t0 change the other, then QUIT.
3. Both M vs W - The best is to understand this initially and just Quit the relationship - its just not going to work out. And even if you dont quit initially - any time is the best time to QUIT in such relationships.
Life poses difficult situations - but its actually simple. Because, your objective in life is not to crib about difficulties but do the best in a given situation to make your "self" happy.
Even spiritually looking at things - Man & Women are equal "power stations" - the best that can happen is a synergy when they live as "Man & woman". But, with "Man Vs Woman" - I dont have to tell you - Its called "annihilation".

SHAKTIAM: Landmine life

SHAKTIAM: Landmine life: If a relationship cannot give that secure feeling that my next step would not be on a landmine.. its a fake relationship. There is no honest...

Landmine life

If a relationship cannot give that secure feeling that my next step would not be on a landmine.. its a fake relationship. There is no honesty in it.. no truth.. Its like we are cheating ourselves in the name of that "relationship" . The most successful relationships are those where each one works around the limitations of the other. Not the ASSUMED limitations.. I'm talking about the REAL limitations. This might look a little negative .. but this is a more realistic approach. We strengthen ourselves by what each other know. But what creates the first crack is an expectation surpassing the limitation of the other. Expectations get built around one's ability.. in any relationship. Limitation is the max efficiency one can perform that 'action' that he is able to do. When I say I cook well, you cannot assume me to be your personal "Nigella" . I cannot be your personal ' aishwarya rai' or ' sharukh' or even your personal 'man / woman next door' , who always appears better than me. In a husband-wife relationship, there is an acceptance of the limitations of each other , appreciation & strengthening of the specialities of each other , work within this premise - all happening in a warp of love. Do you feel this is idealistic? It just implies that you are not really HAPPY. Just introspect....

Women..

Women...

The Embodiment of divinity ;

The Personification of purity;

The Essence of moral values.

STRONG ..... by mind

BEAUTIFUL..... by heart

INVINCIBLE.... by anything known..

Sakhis.. I'm talking about us...Do you hear me?

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